Your love life v 2.0

Sludgey · Subject: Re: Your love life v 2.0 Mon Apr 20, 2009 4:07 am

By dating, I meant first, second, maybe third dates, not "lovers" as you stated. If someone's idea of a first date with me was to sit on a couch all day and talk, well...I'd think they were a gigantic creeper, to be blunt.

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Neon · Subject: Re: Your love life v 2.0 Mon Apr 20, 2009 4:34 am

I get ya. I'd think so too if it was early on. If you mean it that way than its a different story.

ashiin · Subject: Re: Your love life v 2.0 Mon Apr 20, 2009 11:37 am

Sludgey wrote:

By dating, I meant first, second, maybe third dates, not "lovers" as you stated. If someone's idea of a first date with me was to sit on a couch all day and talk, well...I'd think they were a gigantic creeper, to be blunt.

Which is why you gotta take them out to do something first. You guys can end up walking around the park and chatting there. I love it when that happens.

Blue Lightning · Subject: Re: Your love life v 2.0 Mon Apr 20, 2009 2:22 pm

I'd probably just do something I enjoy with her.

Taking a walk and getting to know one another, watch a movie (or even anime we both happen to like), or play video games are the main options.

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_outlaw · Subject: Re: Your love life v 2.0 Mon Apr 20, 2009 5:31 pm

ashiin wrote:

Sludgey wrote:

By dating, I meant first, second, maybe third dates, not "lovers" as you stated. If someone's idea of a first date with me was to sit on a couch all day and talk, well...I'd think they were a gigantic creeper, to be blunt.

Which is why you gotta take them out to do something first. You guys can end up walking around the park and chatting there. I love it when that happens.

Right, walking and talking is fine. Sitting and talking is not.

ashiin · Subject: Re: Your love life v 2.0 Mon Apr 20, 2009 5:44 pm

_outlaw wrote:

ashiin wrote:

Sludgey wrote:

By dating, I meant first, second, maybe third dates, not "lovers" as you stated. If someone's idea of a first date with me was to sit on a couch all day and talk, well...I'd think they were a gigantic creeper, to be blunt.

Which is why you gotta take them out to do something first. You guys can end up walking around the park and chatting there. I love it when that happens.

Right, walking and talking is fine. Sitting and talking is not.

Who says you gotta walk and talk to make it interesting. Sit on a park bench or something. But you still should do something before that if it's an actual date.

_outlaw · Subject: Re: Your love life v 2.0 Mon Apr 20, 2009 5:48 pm

Right. I'm not disputing that at all, and I've not said anything to the contrary.

ContraOneManBand · Number of posts: 430 Registration date: 2008-12-03

First/second/third date NEEDS something as an alternative, both to save you from potentially being trapped with a boring person for 4 hours and to save them from being bored if you start talking about something they're not interested in.

It's easy enough to establish common interests on the (at least) second date though, so after that you should be doing something you both enjoy or not doing anything at all.

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PrettyKitty · Subject: Re: Your love life v 2.0 Wed May 06, 2009 4:52 am

;D how early is too early to propose~?

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CovertSushi · Subject: Re: Your love life v 2.0 Wed May 06, 2009 4:53 am

PrettyKitty wrote:

;D how early is too early to propose~?

oh jesus

Technically it's never too early because a proposal isn't even close to the actual marriage

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KittyKatStar · Subject: Re: Your love life v 2.0 Sat Sep 05, 2009 5:35 pm

And look what my BF put in his facebook status:

____ is wishing he had a full time girlfriend.. *insert lonely.*

I really don't know how to react. Sad

Yes it's hard with the long distance, but... yea. -_-

CovertSushi · Subject: Re: Your love life v 2.0 Sat Sep 05, 2009 8:48 pm

If he doesn't think you're a full-time girlfriend just because of the distance, then he's not really committed enough to make it work, if you ask me. Yeah, it's great to be together, but simple communication is the basis of any relationship.

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Wumbo · Number of posts: 106 Age: 18 Registration date: 2009-01-12

CovertSushi wrote:

If he doesn't think you're a full-time girlfriend just because of the distance, then he's not really committed enough to make it work, if you ask me.

I don't think you should look into it that deep. It sounds like he's lonely and just used poor wording, but you know him better than any of us.

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KittyKatStar · Subject: Re: Your love life v 2.0 Sat Sep 05, 2009 10:00 pm

I hope it was bad writing, too, because it sounded like he was hinting for a new girlfriend. XD

Hopefully he'll move up to Victoria if he decides to go to UVic, if not, when I finish university next spring I can move down...

Sludgey · Subject: Re: Your love life v 2.0 Sun Sep 27, 2009 10:39 pm

What is it about relationships that turn people in to intolerable pieces of ****?

Good god, I went with a friend to do our Psychology experiment at the mall, and he brought his new girlfriend with without telling me. So they just made out, held hands, and flirted the entire time while I just walked around with them at a safe distance. Talking to his girlfriend's little sister (who was also there for a Psychology experiment, but not ours) was the only thing that kept me from grabbing a bee that kept trailing me and shoving its stinger into my arm. (I'm allergic)

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