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PostSubject: Re: I need help   Thu May 28, 2015 2:08 am

Why does she want to go back together?

Why do you want to go back together?

Were things good prior to the breakup?

How long were you two together? How long have you known each other?

More importantly, do you trust her? Can you trust her? If not, then get away as far as possible. A relation with no mutual trust is bound to fail.

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PostSubject: Re: I need help   Thu May 28, 2015 1:12 pm

Well, it's your life, not your dad's.

However, you could be blinded by love, and your dad clearly isn't.

In a lot of cases scenarios like these end up in someone breaking with their family.
Sometimes its for the best, sometimes its not.

You're going to have to get all introspective and stuff to figure this out S&S.
You have to look within yourself and talk to people about this (preferably your prospective gf and your family) to save yourself from doing something you'll regret for a long time, whatever that might be.
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PostSubject: Re: I need help   Thu May 28, 2015 4:46 pm

Sorta been down this road myself and the number priority with stuff like this is certainty. 

The issues that caused the breakup like her not feeling her usual self to getting her life in order: Are you sure she has a handle on that stuff? If she's told different things to your family members have you asked her about that?

Loving each other is all well and good but love in of itself won't be enough to substantiate an long-going relationship without a finer grasp on things.

Honestly it feels as if y'all need a bit more time on figuring this out because let's face it, having a lack of parental approval is a gigantic risk, as you're aware.

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PostSubject: Re: I need help   Fri May 29, 2015 6:04 pm

I'm sorry you have to go through all this Sad I hope you'll feel better soon!

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